[Annie]

perhaps she is blowing things out of proportion but thats probably the only way she knows how to deal with the situation. Holding that against her isn't going to help things. Really forgiving her and showing her you can be trustworthy will, even if it isn't exactly the happiest thing for you right now. I really do hope you will look into getting a copy of that book i mentioned because i really do think if you and your wife would read it together and apply the principles therein that it could help the two of you handle these issues in a much healthier way.