[flnativegrl]

I've been thinking about this one. My only real struggle with singleness is believing that there is a guy out there that wants an "instant family" since I have two young boys.

I keep the faith by reminding myself that the "right" man would not only be OK with the fact that I have kids, but he would want to be a part of their lives (emotionally and as a role model/authority figure). I would rather remain single than subject my boys to someone that would not be willing to fill the role in a positive, healthy way.