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08-17-2008, 08:20 AM
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Do any of you "infatuate"?
Do any of you "infatuate"? By this I mean you constantly think about the opposite sex you find are interested in. You become consumed to the point where you desire them so much and think about them a lot.
If so, how have you handled them?
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08-19-2008, 12:35 AM
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Sometimes or sort of. You can't always control your thoughts or feelings but you can control what you do about them. That is what I have done in the past. When I know that the only reason I am interested in a woman is sexual, then I do not pursue that woman. I may not be able to change my thoughts, but I keep them from becoming actions.
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08-22-2008, 09:56 PM
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Hmmm...have infatuations????
Not so much anymore. After the last few experiences with the opposite sex, I'm convinced that God is telling me with a neon bright lite sign telling me YOU AREN'T READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP!!! WAIT!!!!!!!!
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08-28-2008, 07:51 AM
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I got pretty close to infatuating myself on a certain guy. He was all wrong for me in so many ways, but in other ways, he was so wonderful. I had a massive crush on him. He moved to another state, which was sad and all that, cuz I really liked him, but at the same time I'm glad it happened. I wasn't fond of just how much on my mind he was. If he would have stayed in town I don't know how much longer I could have fought him off.
So how do I handle an infatuation? In this case I got lucky, but in any other situation I'm guessing I'd just purposely distract myself with other things hoping that my infatuation gets "watered down." No fun being infatuated. Not healthy.
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09-01-2008, 06:31 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by proggerr23
Do any of you "infatuate"? By this I mean you constantly think about the opposite sex you find are interested in. You become consumed to the point where you desire them so much and think about them a lot.
If so, how have you handled them?
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I've had a few. I am not exactly proud of some of them nowadays. 
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09-01-2008, 07:34 AM
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How would you handle it differently today then?
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