just friends?

[wilkette]

Well, I will agree that it is a trust issue.

That said, I have a trust issue when it comes to that. Not having friends of the opposite sex, but I having very good friends of the opposite sex. I do believe that it can be easy to start out with the best of intentions but then find your thought life sliding when things are not so peachy at home. I would be upset if my husband were to go and get coffee with another woman one on one, even if they were just friends - and I'm just being honest. Regardless of intent, it does not look good, and when you have very close friends of the opposite sex you can find yourself thinking "I wish my mate did X and Y like so-and-so." I do not think my husband would be unfaithful in a million years, but I still do not like the idea of him spending one on one time with another female.