How do you....

Paddington · #11 (**permalink**) 07-08-2007, 08:58 AM

I wear a bin bag and don't brush my hair for a week

Ok seriously, there's not much you can do short of making it clear you're not interested. As soon as they get that message (and with some guys, it takes a while...) they back off because they know their efforts are pointless!

bellaandpjforever · #12 (**permalink**) 07-11-2007, 12:18 AM

Ignore them and if that still doesnt work then I let them met my BF (or atleast who they think is my BF) lol.

Nat

one_way · #13 (**permalink**) 07-14-2007, 05:29 AM

hahaha. that's an easy question for me to answer. my brother's will go all ninja on the pervert. sometimes they have a nice chat, they meet my brother's fist or my brother calls and threatens them

Annie · #14 (**permalink**) 07-14-2007, 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ThenThereWasRED

^^ funny post :funny: I bet a lot of married people get hit on.

i had a coworker a year or so ago that was getting hit on by some random weirdo wandering through the mall and when she tried to tell him she was married he wouldn't believe her so she called her husband and had him tell the guy off for her haha

BeautifullyImperfect · #15 (**permalink**) 07-15-2007, 03:21 AM

Ugh...I always have Hispanic dudes staring at me... T-T I'm really really sorry, I don't want to sound racist at all...but a lot of Hispanic dudes need to learn to keep their gaze off me... >.<

I sooo wish I had an older bro...

Usually I get weird looking guys staring at me... I rarely ever get actually 'hit on'....just stared at ... which is unnerving cuz I've been sexually assaulted... :S

I try to ignore them, or I glare at them...or just stare straight into their eyes with a blank expression.

Kinda like > o_________________________________o

Yes..I am a whale... x)

bubblyone234 · #16 (**permalink**) 01-04-2008, 08:54 AM

I really need some help in this area. I am not good at this at all! Because I can't drop hints or speak upfront to a guy, big dramas have happened, usually ending up with that guy thinking I hate him.

there was one time when I actually DID tell a guy to back off, and he spread rumors around my school saying I was a S*** and "stuck my tongue down some random guy's throat" which I did NOT do EVER!

*sigh* bad experiences!

mbgb · #17 (**permalink**) 01-04-2008, 08:59 AM

You just have to be mean. Tell him you are only interested in him as a friend, and that is it. Or you could lie and tell them you have some kind of contagious disease, and start scratching all over. I've never tried that though. I heard it works. Good luck with all of that!

DMcKay · #18 (**permalink**) 01-04-2008, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ThenThereWasRED

...handle unwanted attention from a guy?

Lady Heather,

Sorry to answer your question in the Gal's forum but I couldn't resist. Contact Gwen or Lil Tigress, see who has the sledge hammer and borrow it until he gets the message.

Don M

Seattle Rain · #19 (**permalink**) 03-28-2008, 03:24 AM

Rejection Hotline. I have a lot of fun giving that number away to people.

NeverAlone · #20 (**permalink**) 03-28-2008, 04:01 PM

LOL! I love the rejection hotline! I've never given it out...but I love it anyhow!

Generally if anyone is going to hit on me, they are old or of a different race than I. ((For discrimination sake I won't say which

))
I don't like it. In fact, I get quite creeped out. For them, I just ignore them or act very mean.

When I was a lifeguard, guys would hit on the female lifeguards all the time. It always made us uncomfortable. I would super enforce the rules with them and tell them to back off and leave us alone or I'd kick them out of the pool.

It worked like a charm

If its a nice guy, which for me is rare indeed, I generally have no idea he likes me in the first place unless he tells me. If I get told, then I just tell the truth that he's a good friend but I don't want a relationship with anyone but God right now.