Life is more than glamor or guys.......

[ThenThereWasRED]

It seems that most girls main concerns is how they look and having a relationship with a guy. I would like to see a discussion here how can as christian gals we change our focus on having the right priorities.

What do you gals do to keep the right focus?

[texmex]

Having friends and family help you with this is handy. They can let you know if you flirt, or things of that nature and help you stop.

[Annie]

I think just making sure your priorities are right is necessary and watching what you fill your head with. If all you think about is boys then thats all your going to really care about. If, however, you fill your mind with God and on Biblical things and practices your heart is going to be somewhere else.

[Anariel]

I agree with Shari--having the right priorities is huge.

I keep myself quite busy most of the time (not intentionally...I just enjoy a lot of things), so spending a lot of time thinking about boys or how I look isn't really an option.

[Steffi]

Originally Posted by Anariel

I keep myself quite busy most of the time (not intentionally...I just enjoy a lot of things), so spending a lot of time thinking about boys or how I look isn't really an option.

Yup - sounds like the same thing I do.

[bellaandpjforever]

I am a busy person so i dont have much time to think about anything a part from what I am doing at that moment.

Nat

[kendaleelee]

I'm in agreeance with the other girls.
It's how we think that is going to determine how we act around other people. If we're worried about what guys will think of us, then we're going to change our outfit ten times until we're happy.

Because of that I've found one of the best ways to try and get away from this type of thing is to 'bounce' your thoughts and as soon as you realise you're thinking about boys or whatever, you change the thoughts in your head towards God, even just thinking about the character of God and praying to Him and letting the other thoughts just fall away.